What Makes You Want to Have a Threesome?

When you're with your partner and the conversation of potentially having a threesome pops up, it can sometimes get a little crazy. Some people like the idea of sharing their sexual partners with another person once or twice, maybe more or maybe less. Other people may cringe at the thought alone, or perhaps consider it cheating. Either way, it's not always the easiest of suggestions to bring up with your partner, but what is it that makes the idea of a threesome so enticing to so many people?

What's so Thrilling about having a Threesome?

If it's you and your partner's first time contemplating having a threesome, it might be a fun conversation about something you're both interested in, or it could be one-sided and quickly escalate to making things awkward, uncomfortable and some people even think of just the thought of having a threesome as revolting, a sign of unfaithfulness or blatant cheating.

But let's not pretend that we haven't thought about it, or fantasized it at one point or another. Many men love the idea of getting the opportunity to double up on all the things they like to do in bed. They already can't get enough with just one girl, what kind of untold pleasures would two bring to the table? However, men are often a bit more narrow-minded when it comes to threesome, the majority would love it so long as it was with another woman, few would even consider having a three-way with their ladies and another man.

Women on the other hand are a bit more open-minded. The thought of two men may be appealing, but many women are also either bisexual or at the very least bicurious when it comes to thinking about potentially a having a threesome. If they've never found themselves with another girl, it's a new experience for them too and many are just as turned on by the idea of a third sexual partner in bed with them as the man typically might be!

How do you React if your Partner Suggests a Threesome?

It's important to always be truthful and to speak your mind in these situations. Perhaps you don't like the idea at all, and if that's the case, it's important to vocalize those emotions and feelings rather than hide them in fear of upsetting your partner, or anything along those lines. Your partner may just be suggesting the notion because they're a little frisky. Or if you and your partner are perhaps both each-other's firsts, you both might want to go out and explore what it's like being with other people too. Threesomes can be a blast if both parties are about it, but it's always essential to be true to yourself and knowing whether or not you'd truly be alright with it.

If my Partner Suggests a Threesome, are they Cheating on Me?

Obviously it depends on how the question comes up, but if you're in a solid relationship with your partner, you can feel that it's real, it's probably just more of a spontaneous suggestion or fantasy they've always wanted to give a try. Perhaps you're thinking that they're only bringing it up so you wouldn't see it as cheating, but realistically that's probably not the case. If they wanted to cheat, they'd be cheating. And if they're asking you directly if you'd be enticed, they'd likely be even more turned on with you being there too!

So What Makes You Want to Have a Threesome?

It's normal, most people think about it at some point in their lives. It's something different, a way to add a bit of spice to your sex lives, a chance to test new waters and have a new kind of fun experience in bed. After-all, "one's company, two's a crowd, and three's a party," and who doesn't like the occasional party?

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